39. Writing with clear ink

~Written by Danielle N. Bilski ~

No one understands better and is more aware than a person who makes their living as a writer, of the fact that anything that has been written is only of any value once it has been read. Writing remains a major form of communication however it doesn’t matter what type of equipment or technology is used to do it, everyone who writes is initially writing with clear ink until someone else acknowledges its existence and then ink appears.

So it is interesting to think about what happens to writing that no one reads and what does it mean for the person who has written it? Depending on its importance, subjectively speaking, there could be positive or negative consequences for the writer and/or the intended reader. This is one interesting possibility to think about.

Perhaps what is more intriguing is what happens to the writing once it has been read? Is it kept and used for future reference, shared, amended, forwarded on to others, replied to, deleted or destroyed, critiqued or praised, returned, copied and/or cited?

Human existence relies to a certain extent upon acknowledgment and appreciation for it to achieve longevity. Writing is not dissimilar in the sense that its existence is justified when it has been read enough times by enough people, giving the ink time to dry and to resonate and the time to realise its potential by making a significant and meaningful contribution to the lives of those it enters.

Having spent an extensive, varied and recently increasing amount of time with written words throughout my life, I have come to realise and appreciate that every piece of writing does have a life of its own. Every piece is subject to the possibility of a premature death as mentioned earlier or perhaps the gift of eternal life. Take Shakespeare’s words that have survived more than 400 years and the obvious example of literary longevity; the Christian Bible. According to Wikipedia, “The Old Testament consists of a collection of writings believed to have been composed at various times from the twelfth to the second century B.C.” (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bible, accessed 31/8/2010)

Ultimately, none of us know precisely when our time will end. For this reason, it is important to make sure that we are not leaving a clear trail behind us when we walk or perhaps run along our own life path. That doesn’t mean everything you do must be seen. Instead we need to work out which parts of our story we want to be read and be remembered for.

In the consumer society in which we live, we have all been somewhat desensitised by others’ stories; true, fictitious and everything in between. We all want to be loved, admired, praised and appreciated for who we are and what we do. It’s human nature.

Having said that, it is vital for all of us to understand that in the end it is up to us to take responsibility for the way we live our lives and the one person that must acknowledge and appreciate the story that we have written is ourselves.

Writers know there will always be an alternative way to write something, but as long as we are able to read what we have written and be proud of it, every other person who reads it is a bonus.

Privileged to be writing a story that I am excited to read with you,

My Time with You ©2010 Danielle N. Bilski

38. In my own time

~Written by Danielle N. Bilski ~

Last Wednesday we celebrated a special time together; the first birthday of mytimewithyou.com.au, which I now affectionately refer to as MTWYcomau. For those who are interested, MTWYcomau became an abbreviation for the website a few months ago when I was setting up a Twitter account. I discovered that Twitter does not allow full stops to be used within account names (and possibly other punctuation marks), therefore ‘MTWYcomau’ seemed to me to be an appropriate compromise.

Another and perhaps more exciting change that has occurred recently is the new features you may have noticed on the MTWYcomau homepage. I wanted to make the homepage more informative and less like a long list of blog posts, which I feel can be somewhat intimidating for a first time visitor.

I’d love to hear what you think of the new look.

The new features on the homepage include:
– A quote from me that I feel captures the essence of my life, My Time with You and MTWYcomau
– A current word count I update as I write the manuscript
– A checklist containing significant tasks that I have completed with relevance to the manuscript
– A new poll question every month

For the last ten days I have been trying to make myself sit down and reflect on what has happened over the past year, with the intention of writing a post about it. However, one thing I have learned (if nothing else) is that I will only be able to do something well if I do it in my own time. Realitically, there is only a window of opportunity for anything to be done before it becomes irrelevant or inappropriate. The changes that occur in our world happen seemingly so quickly in this time of social networking and digital media. I remind myself of this regularly and therefore I try to work within a realistic time frame, while giving myself adequate time to reach a conclusion I am confortable with.

Each day I have been reflecting, it has been systematically organised under sub-headings so as not to leave anything out. In true My Time with You fashion, the sub-headings are:

– Today
– Yesterday
– Last week
– Last month
– Last year
– Tomorrow

As another day passes by, it becomes more obvious that the definitions change with the dates. Today will become yesterday, tomorrow. Tomorrow will become today. Time is constant. Some things change every second, every minute, every hour and every day. Other things remain the same infinitely and unconditionally.

Embrace change as an inevitability and a positive opportunity.

I will attempt to capture an entire year of creative and life progress between now and my next post. By then, more things may have changed. We shall see…

Anticipating tomorrow; so grateful for yesterday and today with you,

My Time with You ©2010 Danielle N. Bilski

37. Destined; to be (poem)

~ Written by Danielle N. Bilski ~

Destined; to be
Written by Danielle N. Bilski

A day when everything changed
She felt lost
Nothing seemed the same.
A day when nothing changed
She felt restless
Everything seemed mundane.
Today she decided it was time
For her to take control of her life
She began a list of changes of her very own.
Accepting that change is inevitable
Her first challenge
At the top, in number one.
Realising that change comes at the most unpredictable times
By number two
She was beginning to have some fun.
Appreciating that she needed to find happiness
In between all the stillness and movement
Appeared at a profound third.
At this point she began to realise
It was what in fact her heart
That she now heard.
On a clean sheet of paper she wrote the word DESTINY
And underneath she wrote
EVERYTHING IS AS IT SHOULD BE.
Tonight she told herself ‘The world will lead the way
Directing me to the right place
While the rest is up to me.’

My Time with You ©2010 Danielle N. Bilski

36. HAPPY 1st BIRTHDAY MTWYcomau! Celebrating a special time with you

~ Written by Danielle N. Bilski ~

One year ago today mytimewithyou.com.au (MTWYcomau) was born. Created out of the simple desire to document the process of writing my first fiction manuscript in a public forum, I couldn’t have imagined that it would have brought me to where I am today. The idea of ‘My Time with You’ as a story was in its very early stages itself when MTWYcomau was launched. Therefore, myself and loyal MTWYcomau readers alike were witnessing the absolute beginning of the story; both the fiction one and the real story that we have shared for the past 365 days.

Even if this is your first time visiting mytimewithyou.com.au, I extend a warm  welcome to you in appreciation. Get ready; our story has only just begun!

Each piece that I have posted on the website has reflected the (sometimes complex) ideas that I have explored over the past year, which has inadvertently made this entire project more intense, constructive and comprehensive than I ever thought it could be. It has become a writing sanctuary for all of my creativity and life lessons and motivated me to preserve even on the most difficult days. I hope it has inspired its readers to ask more questions of themselves and the world in general and proven that anything is possible if you really listen to what your heart tells you.

Our mind may be logical, but it doesn’t always allow us to follow what comes most naturally to us, because of what we may have been taught is the ‘right thing to do’. No one knows you better than you know yourself, so we must all have faith and constantly remind ourselves that the steps we take are our own and that, right or wrong, they lead us to where we are meant to be at a particular moment in time.

I want to take this opportunity today to extend my immense gratitude to some special people who have supported me, my writing, ‘My Time with You’ and MTWYcomau from the very beginning of all of our stories. Without your confidence and genuine interest, nurture and love, none of this would be what it has become.

To my Mum – Thank you for understanding that writing is what makes me, me and that I wouldn’t be who I am today without it. Thank you for giving me your unconditional support every single day of my life and sharing every step of this journey with me; from the most significant moment to even the most seemingly insignificant. I couldn’t have done any of this without you, nor would I have wanted to. I love you.

To my Brother – Thank you for helping me create this place where my writing could be seen, read and hopefully appreciated. Thank you for your passion in this project and lending your own creative talents to make it what it is today. I am extremely grateful. I love you.

To my boyfriend; the love of my life – Thank you for seeing something in me that sometimes I have trouble seeing in myself. I couldn’t do this without your patience and understanding, love and unconditional support. I love you.

To my dearest family and friends – There are too many of you to name. Thank you for not only your constant interest in my writing, but for seeing me for who I really am and assuring me that everything is exactly how it is supposed to be. I am so grateful to have you in my life and share the memories we have; then, now and I hope for much more time to come. I love you.

To my fellow writers – Thank you for your feedback and understanding of how a creative mind works. As Kermit the Frog one sang ‘it’s not easy being green.’ Wikipedia explains that “By the end of the song, Kermit recalls positive associations with the color green, and concludes by accepting and embracing his greenness.” He says “It’s beautiful! And it’s what I want to be…”. (Wikipedia, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bein%27_Green, accessed 4th August, 2010) For me personally, the moral of that story is that when we learn to embrace the stories that are inside of us, even in their infancy and realise who we truly are, the world becomes a much more honest and emotive place. Don’t stop writing! Remember my definition for procrastination – ‘planning with the intention to achieve’; just write what your heart tells you and you can’t go too wrong. 🙂

Finally, to all of the loyal mytimewithyou.com.au (MTWYcomau) readers – Thank you for choosing to spend regular time with me and my words. This project isn’t just about me or you. It’s about us and the time that we share, no matter where we are in this world. I am so grateful for every moment of it.

A special mention in the memory of my Papa (1923 – 2004).
I wish I could have shared this momentous occasion in my life and my writing career with you. I miss you every day and with all that I am, I dedicate this day especially to you. I will never forget you. I love you, always.

R.I.P Michael Joseph Jackson (1958 – 2009)
A consistent inspiration of love and creative genius. ‘I love YOU more.’

The necessities of daily living can distract us from appreciating the fragility of our life and the human spirit. May we all take a moment everyday to be grateful for what we have and keep our spirits healthy by making conscious choices that bring happiness to ourselves and those around us. The simplest gesture can have infinite consequences that we may never know about, but choose to do anyway because that is who we are.

This has truly been the happiest year of my life!

So here’s to you, me, us and them. We are all here together; now let’s enjoy the rest of the story.

Blowing out the first birthday candle and enjoying a slice of this special day with you,

My Time with You ©2010 Danielle N. Bilski

35. Inner sense + Spoiler alert (Read Post 34. first)

~ Written by Danielle N. Bilski ~

Inner sense
Written by Danielle N. Bilski

Look at and really see it for what it truly is,
Listen to and really hear the things they have to say,
Breathe in and really smell every facet of the complex aroma,
Eat it and really taste all the individual ingredients it contains,
Touch them and really feel the sensation of intimacy,
Spend time with the world and appreciate every moment,
Really remember what you saw, heard, smelled, tasted and felt,
Enhance your life with the presence of others,
Find inner sense for yourself.

*SPOILER ALERT*

Have you read Post 34. yet?

Answer below…

Symbol from Post 34. is:

The letter ‘e’.

Re-read the entire Post 34.and you will see that no word contains the letter ‘e’ in it. I deliberately used the numerical symbols for one hundred and one in the title and shortened my name to the first two initials. Visually, there is not letter ‘e’ in the entire post.

According to Wikipedia.org, ‘Gadsby: Champion of Youth is a 1939 novel by Ernest Vincent Wright…The novel is most famous for a letter it omits; written as a lipogram, it purposefully does not use the letter “e” in any word. It inspired other authors to write lipogrammatic books, including Georges Perec’s famous novel A Void.’ It goes on to say that ‘Gadsby is famous for being written as a lipogram; for all of its 50,110 words, it avoids words that contain the letter “e”, the most common used letter in the English language. In spite of these constraints, the novel remains grammatically correct.’(Gadsby: Champion of Youth, Wikipedia, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Gadsby:_Champion_of_Youth, accessed 2nd August, 2010)

What is a lipogram?

According to Wikipdia, ‘a lipogram (from Greek lipagrammatos, “missing letter”) is a kind of constrained writing or word game consisting of writing paragraphs or longer works in which a particular letter or group of letters is omitted — usually a common vowel, the most common in English being “E”.’ Wikipedia, http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Lipogram, accessed 2nd August, 2010)

Now you know what a lipogram is, why don’t you give writing one a try?

Trying something new,
My Time with You ©2010 D.N. Bilski

34. 100 words without using 1 particular symbol. Can you work out what it is?

~ By D.N. Bilski ~

“Can you talk without using words that do not contain this symbol? This symbol is vital in forming many words in our vocabulary. Although it is difficult, you can do it by thinking hard about which words you pick to say what you want to. An actual book shows that you can do it and it has not got that particular symbol in it at all. It is difficult to do with words that I’m using for this paragraph, not thinking that a full book subsists without this symbol in it. Do you know what symbol I am talking about?”

In Post 35. I will show you what symbol it is.

Having fun with you,

MTWY ©2010 D.N. Bilski